If Only He Would...
Have you ever had that thought? If only my husband (or lover, partner, etc.) would...
You can fill in the blank with anything – hold me, make love to me, help me with the chores, listen to me, be a better father, pay attention, and so forth and so on.
What it means is… if only he would… then I could be happy.
We don’t realize that is what we are saying, but it is.
We are buying into my favorite marriage myth. We believe that our happiness, or unhappiness is something he could fix, if only he would.
It’s the classic “raised on Cinderella” mindset. We find prince charming (that’s supposed to be the hard part) and then he becomes responsible for our happiness.
Ironically, men are wired to consider our happiness as a feather in their cap, it sort of works, in the short term. Because, believe it or not, most of them really DO want to make us happy.
But it is all a myth. They can make us happy.
They don’t have the power to make us happy.
Only we have that power.
So, if you want to know how to take it back, right where you are, right now, you need to jump into the Marriage Myth Membership community. This month we are tackling what I call the “Five Biggest Marriage Destroying Myths.”
If you want to know why you feel so powerless, confused, frustrated, lonely or hopeless, you’ll get the answers this month in the membership community. The $74 investment is a small price to pay for that sort of liberation!
You’ll get answers that will empower you and connect you to the wisest part of yourself that knows exactly what you need for a life of deep happiness, joy and love. There are two live classes, two group coaching sessions + 50+pages of written material covering the myths and our theme for the month. Each month, we focus on a different theme, so it’s always at your side, cheering you on.
Please join me and the beautiful women choosing to empower themselves in The Marriage Myth Transcendent membership community. Get the deets and join www.
Come on gorgeous – you can do this - uncover your magic. And then slay those myths once and for all – reclaim your heart and your power – and truly, truly live a joyful life. Join us in The Marriage Myth Transcendent.