We all do. It’s part of our nature to long for a life of love, joy, and fulfillment. But that kind of life requires more than “true love’s kiss”.
Because we are not damsels in distress. We don’t need men to protect us against evil fairies, slay our dragons, or wake us up from a dreamless slumber.
We just need to see our own strength, beauty and value.
Never forget that we have the ability, literally, to create new life. Why are we staying stuck, unhappy, exhausted and miserable in an old life that isn’t working?
Perhaps we bought into the wrong fairy tale.
True fairy tales, (like the one I now live in France), are not about a hopeless life of servitude or a mythical land where nothing challenging, sad or hard ever happens
THAT WOULD BE MAKE BELIEVE
True fairy tales only happen when we become the author, (not just a hapless heroine) of our own story.
I know, because I spent a lifetime trying to fit into the wrong story.
But after 25 years of marriage, and almost two decades trying to figure out why I wasn’t happy, I discovered the secret.
Yes, fairest one, there is more.
And right now, at this very minute, you too can begin to discover it for yourself.
You have the power to find — or create — a life you love.
You can live an audacious life.
When you stop….
• feeling wounded
• being defensive
• seeing yourself as helpless
...you’ll be able to see yourself and your marriage clearly.
Rediscover your self-worth, what sets your soul on fire and reclaim your confidence as a woman. Having an objective perspective allows you to embrace those things that make you who you are.
That’s what I help you do: reclaim who you are.
I believe you are here by divine purpose. I believe you can rewrite your life — beginning with your marriage.
I am here to meet you right where you are, to be your guide. To hold up the mirror for you to see your inner goddess, your strength, your courage and your beauty. I am here for you — to marry the wonder of you with the life you long to live.
I am here to help you begin to think differently - which will allow you to embrace your dreams. I am here to help you reclaim your power and create YOUR life.
I am here to teach you real life alchemy. Everything can become gold when you take the focus off others and turn it inward.
No, I don’t have a magic wand to change your husband, as lovely as that might sound
I do, however, reveal to you your very own transformational magic — the kind of fairy tale magic you need to write your own happy ending, whether that’s with your husband or on a new journey of your own.
Because not so long ago, I was where you are now. I understand the pain of indecision. Unsure whether you should stay or go. The fear of failure or making a mistake. The hopelessness and sleepless nights.
I was a business owner, with a beautiful house, a wonderful son, a handsome successful husband, multiple degrees and I couldn’t summon any of that intellect, experience or success to create a happy marriage.
I tried it all…
Self help books
Advice from friends
Everything I could think of
It was a mystery I couldn’t solve and eventually my marriage unraveled.
When I reached the breaking point and felt like I had no other option, I divorced. And woke up, still confused and unhappy, only now I had all the guilt and pain of hurting others piled on.
This is why that happened.
I was waiting (just like all the heroines in good fairy tales) for him, for my marriage, to make me happy.
That’s not how it works.
Marriage itself will never make you happy. You can wait 5, 10, 20 years, living like someone under a spell, but it’s never going to happen.
But divorce isn’t always the answer either.
The truth is that your husband could be Prince Charming and your marriage would still be floundering if you’ve lost your focus.
Too many women lose themselves in marriage. The vibrant woman they were when they said “I do” fades away as their focus shifts to their husband, their kids, anything but themselves.
That’s when marriages begin to falter. Because your gifts, your charms, your desires, your innate strengths, your femininity and yes, even your emotions and longings are all essential to a happy and successful marriage — and life.
Finding ourselves again may seem daunting, but it’s the hero’s journey we all need to take. It may result in healing your marriage — or it may lead you to find the most loving, graceful way to leave it. But either way, it ends in a happily ever after for YOU. Because you’ll be truly in love. Not with another person, but with yourself. And that’s where the magic happens.
Transformation happens when you know
who you are
what you want
Empowerment happens when you
understand what you are instinctively drawn to (or repelled by)
uncover the unconscious belief systems you have wrapped around your life.
can let go of blame and anger to see the gift of choice.