Trying to decide to stay or call quits?


We all long for a deep, passionate partnership. But it requires more than “true love’s kiss”.

If you’ve tried everything you know but you are still waiting, hoping something will change, living like roommates at best or strangers at worst, you’re here for a reason.

I will show you a different way of connecting with your husband.

One that allows you to honestly share, feel heard and understood. And creates the space to see and understand him. It’s my job, as a coach, not a therapist, to help you slay the Myths about marriage we all grew up with, to find your truth and your answers. Not the ones we are so often offered.

Raised on Cinderella? Me too.

I still believe in Fairy Tales - and believe they can come true.

But, True Fairy Tales are written when we


True Fairy Tales

Understand why we get angry with our husband

Ask for what we want and need - and are Heard

Not feel trapped in a loveless marriage

reject self judgement - dropping the “not good enough” to love who we are

stay “in love” or leave confidently - without guilt, remorse, what if’s

stop fighting - without giving in

Master a few “husband fixing” tips

discover our divine nature & embrace our innate strengths and gifts - to reflect the queen we are

Can Release the pain and anger without letting go of our right to be angry or sad


True fairy tales happen when we become the author,  (not just a hapless heroine) of our own story.

Yes, fairest one, there is SO MUCH more.

If we work together, I will show you that

You have the power to find — or create — the love and life you long for

You can live an audacious life.

 ...your choices about your marriage become clear

with the innovative quizzes I created that uncover your intrinsic longings, used in conjunction with scientifically proven tools. You will rediscover your confidence and feel 100% sure about your next step.


We become stuck

in a cycle of repetitive behavior patterns because we can’t see the limiting beliefs that keep us there. That’s Where I come in - to help you uncover them.

I am here to:

guide you to YOur truth - not what someone else believes you should do.

help you begin to think differently -

to move confidently in the next, best step - for you.

help you own your power to create YOUR life.

teach you real life alchemy. Everything can become gold when you shift your focus from him or it to you- sand rediscover the wonder of you.

No, I am not a magician, not a therapist, not a counselor. I don’t have a magic wand to change your husband, as lovely as that might sound. But I do have the tools you need to make your own magical transformation.

You may choose to re-build with your husband or begin a new journey of your own. I am not attached to whether you stay or go. But I committed to helping you find your truth, so that you can decide.



A long time ago I was where you are now

Nothing worked. 

I tried it all…

  • Positive affirmations

  • Determination

  • Sacrifice

  • Counselors

  • Self help books

  • Advice from friends

  • Everything I could think of


It was a mystery I couldn’t solve. Eventually my marriage unraveled.

It wasn’t until after I divorced and realized not a lot had really changed that I finally understood.

I had been waiting (just like all the heroines in good fairy tales) for him, for my marriage, to change so that I could be happy.

Unfortunately, that’s not how it works.

Marriage itself can’t make us happy. The pain, confusion, anger and sadness stem from the beliefs we hold on to about what he or our marriage should do or be.

Which means divorce isn’t always the answer either.

I’ve helped countless women uncover and reconnect to their Divine Nature to find their path and their answers.

You are not your marriage. It shouldn’t define you or trap you - your gifts, your charms, your desires, your innate strengths, your femininity and yes, even  your emotions and longings are all essential to a happy and successful marriage — and life.

Meaning - that before you make that huge, life changing decision to call it quits - find out

  • who you are

  • what you want - not just what you don’t want

“This was such an epiphany for me. How freeing to realize that as I grow to love me I am able to give up that facade and me be with my vulnerability and desire to be taken care of and appreciated for all I am”


After having used the services of three different marriage therapists during my fourteen year relationship with no results to show for, I was not sure what to expect when I contacted Kimberly. I was in tremendous pain, completely confused and lost. In a few months, I changed so much! I could find my own voice and clearly understand what I want and deserve as a woman and wife. I was able to laugh and find my footing because of my sessions with Kimberly. Now, I continue coaching with Kimberly because I want to improve the skills I learned with her.
— M.V.